Every week I have noticed small but meaningful encounters
of preserving one’s childhood. As I pass by the moms in the lobby, outdoors, or
in group I witness their nurturing and protective nature. When some moms come
to drop off the kids at Project Hope they play small little hide and seek games
with their children as they say their “I love you” and goodbyes, and when they
come to pick them up, the children are greeted with a bear hug and soft kiss.
As I witness these small interactions, I know how meaningful their actions are
to their children. With some situations being fleeting, such as food to eat or
a bed to lie in, always knowing there is a hug waiting for you can mean the
world.
Some have said there is no perfect or correct way to be a parent, and of course there are an infinite number of situations that affect parenthood, but recognizing when you need help and when you have to be vulnerable can be the hardest step to take. By allowing yourself to heal and be supported by Sheffield Place is a way to create a healthier environment for you and your child. Even within the few weeks I have spent with the kids, I have noticed their development and growth. Whether it is coming in and reading quietly without being asked or sharing their coloring pencils with other kids, noticing the small but meaningful actions is a representation of the staff’s hard work.
Just like there are no correct ways to parent, it is extremely difficult to try and carry all of the weight alone; and although there are no biological ties to the children, the Sheffield staff cares for each parent and child as if they was their own family. Whether it is making sure there is a full pantry of sweet treats for snack time or access to stuffed animals for the child, there is an aspect of support that goes beyond just basic needs to live. To come into work and witness individuals eating family style or playing with another woman’s child, it is a building that houses structure, but more importantly loving support. I am very lucky to be a small part of the large growing family, and I am taking
each encounter to continue the preservation of a beautiful childhood.
Helen is a summer intern working at Sheffield Place through the Morning Glory Ministries made possible by a grant from Catherin V. Merrill Foundation. The agency has benefitted from this partnership in each of the past four years.
